The Sliding Door

I reccomend everyone watch this movie, quite profound. The premise is about a woman and 2 of her life choices. They take us upon her lifes journey to show us how her life unfolded in both scenarios.

Those of us who have been divorced, remarried, moved or taken new jobs certainly know the Sliding door. Those tough choices that only we can make. Sometimes its not about making more money but about changing your enviroment, learning, growing, or experiencing life.

Donna

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As time passes-

I do not regret writing this blog. Its unfortunate that some have taken my good intentions out of context. When I was younger I had all the time in the world to help others. As we age, our time becomes more valuable and we have to be more selective in what we do, where we go and who we help. I still participate in spiritual events yet not as much as before.

Yet I do it more for the spiritual experience than anything else. I feel we are always guided by the otherside; the timing is unknown. I am always happy when the radio turn on by itself, the tv turns on by itself or the station turns to a station I didnt program. All we can hope for in life is for divine guidance, so we dont struggle on earth. Some times we take months or more off from the busy life. We are so accustom to doing the task list yet we all need to know ourselves better. I give thanks to our creator, for creation and for showing us the direction we need to go. What inspires you? DO that. What makes you happy, Do that. I dont mean quit yout job, move or whatever else. I mean make some goals, make a plan and move forward. We all have to work, make money and do tasks to survive and live in this world. Do this in a way, that respects your soul, your life & your immediate family. If your in an industry that you hate; try another. Certainly I have worked in many different industries, i enjoyed the change. I thank God for my existence, my 2nd chance in living a healthy life and all the wonderful people and animals placed in my life. I am different, you are different, the world is different after Covid. I know I am much more careful about what I eat since I do have food & product allergies.

XOXO

QD

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Enjoy Nature

Have a nice weekend.

The Gem Fair at the Costa Mesa Fair Grounds start FRIday and conclude Sunday. Check on line for details.

Donna P.

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Dream Messages & Hope..

I feel when we dream we are releasing emotions. Sometimes we need a safe space to release what happens during the day.  The dreams release fears, messages and other miscellaneous things that make no sense.Contact me if you want a private session sorting out your dreams with NLP, Dream journaling and hypnosis.

We are all having to cope in life with sometimes difficult situations. The aging of our parents, friends, loved ones, and even ourselves.  I look to my 30’s and think those were the days..when I could sleep 4 hours and still feel okay while having a very busy 20 hour day. Trust me you cant do that in your 40’s sleep and diet are so essential even more so than the 40 years before.

I use to travel via plane and car, everyweek for Engineering for their business Marketing purposes all throughout the USA, it was pretty fun, I didnt sleep much and was always on the go. Well, I recently went to New York twice in 8 weeks where I accidently got the flu. On the last day someone many seats away was sick on the plane and they got me sick, that lasted for a few weeks. I went to the doctor like 5 times telling them I didnt feel quite right and even did the doctor via phone the 4th time, ER at the end.

Well spirit came in pretty strong while I was on the phone: saying to go back, my flu had turned to pneumonia, even I was surprised. I knew I had an infection I just didnt know thats what pneumonia was like. To come to find out the pills for pneumonia is like $2. See life has humor, I even saw a Humor ice cream truck at the pharmacy;  all that and the cure was $2!! The information did not come while I was sleeping, actually I was wide awake the vibration of my guide was right next to me while I was on the phone with the doctor and was leaving the impression to go in; so I did.

Now as a parent I am juggling my beloved son, spouse, parent and life. Yet that makes the journey more beautiful even though challenging at times.

As Empaths pyschics we are intrepreting the impressions and feelings these visiting energies are giving us while awake most of us will not hear them but feel them. While sleeping I can see them and hear them they are there for our protection and the answers we need do come. Be patient.

Life is full of unknowns and we are here to learn not only about ourselves but others. Thank you to all those who have come to find me.

I love you Angels. Pandora, you are not forgotten.

Love

Donna B.A.

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When life gives you Lemons… make Lemonade.

This week I had a very frustrating week of lazy handyman and no shows; not to mention other things.

After being ill all week I really only had a few hours of free time to myself. My mother had asked me to take her on an errand a week ago; so of course i thought I could pencil her in. So I gave my free time to my mother. She can’t drive because she hasn’t taken care of her bad knee, so every week I drive her around once a week to get her out of the house. Well she wanted to go get her hair done. I only had 2 1/2 hours. She knows I only have this short time frame while my son is in school; yet she seems to ignore what I tell her. Otherwise I have to prebook a sitter like most mothers do, for work or to take care of business. Well she didn’t make an appointment, so she had me take her to all 3 hair salons, they couldn’t seat her right away because they were booked. I asked her why she didn’t book an appointment when she knew I only had that time window. She said nothing. I then informed her that I didn’t want her to feel trapped and that’s why I bought her a car when I was very young. So this time I wrote down the name of a service that takes seniors around for $5. I wasn’t trying to be cruel.  Yet she sure looked upset. Sometimes she seems to forget the juggle of having a small child, booking sitters and managing projects is quite large. She would never do this to my sister so I had to let her know so she would quite repeating her pattern of behavior. Funny how most people lack such basic communication skills and they get upset when you tell them your side of things. Psychology is quite interesting.

While she walked in and out of salons I was on the phone talking to vendors trying to fix issues. Often she wonders why in the world I am on the phone, when we’re shopping or eating yet if I don’t take care of these items, no one else does it for me.
Its been a crazy week with my son being ill, then catching the cold.
I do have a blessed life yet that doesn’t mean everything is done for me.
Stay Happy,  optimistic and move forward one step at a time.

Love all you soul sisters and brothers who have been brought in my path. #ARI

Donna B.A.

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Saying “NO” to others..

Many women have learned to please men or others, please their parents or to live a perfect life —that doesn’t really exist. Somewhat has been portrayed on commercials or what not. Some will use religion or idealist views and place them on everyone around them to hold this value of control , of themselves and to those around them.
I once went to a very good psychic some 15 years ago, she would tell me when you say NO to ohers, you are saying YEs to yourself. Like many I was taught to say yes to everything. Then life taught me, you just cant. This is a lesson for the empaths out there and all the over givers of the world.
Most recently I was at this Science of Mind Church and the topic was just this. Even when you say NO its a YES…meaning you are saying no to one person but Yes to something else. Sometimes I am saying NO to opportunities because I am saying YES to my son, yes to my husband, yes to my life.
Thus placing this in my mind gave me complete control and freedom in my life. Reminding me that I could say NO to those who impose their will upon me, some negative, some time based, some money based or otherwise. Respect and expectation is a 2 way street. We cant always do what others want, it may not work for our children or our life.
This goes for family, friends business, and whoever crosses your path. It has to work for you and them.
Sincerely, Donna B.A.
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Discussing OUR PAIN & Processing it.

DISCUSSING OUR….. PAIN & Processing it.

People have criticize me for talking about my pain with life, love, relationships & my past. Yet I feel it’s necessary to discuss; so I personally like to analyze to release it to move on. ITs all a process. I use to bottle things up but that didn’t work too well for me, I kept it in my body, now I just discuss, process & release. Im an empath so naturally I empathize and feel & know the pain of others. Sometimes they can identify it, sometimes that cant. They haven’t processed their emotions entirely in some form mentally, emotionally, or accepting whatever situation or person.
For example when I had my son, I was encountering many single women friends/family members who didn’t have children or who had them over 25 years ago in which they judged me harshly for giving up my 6 figure position & gave me much grief about having a son, taking time off, making different choices, choosing less stressful career options that offered me flexibility and choosing what was right for me.
Life isn’t always apple pie, lets be honest but we cant own other peoples pain, they must process what the issue really is for them. I realized, that I represented a mirror to them. A mirror of what they once had, should of had, wanted to have, or it triggered something about them. It wasn’t about me or what I should do, it was about them.
We can co collaborate with others in many ways, work, projects, goals, events, yet our personal life; is that—our choice. Such as Who we date, who me marry, who we spend time with, what we do in our spare time, & who we learn from.

D. Nefertiti

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Persuing our Passion despite others..

I think this is a valuable topic every 20,30,40 something should always keep in mind. As we age we are going to get the opinions of others and why they think we shouldnt do something. Yet they are too afraid to reach for a goal of their own.

I remember in my late 30’s I interviewed for several reader positions and was essentially turned away. My male counterparts would interview and would be hired almost immediately. I remember 1 particular time, a lady who was about ready to retire had interviewed me. She asked me if I planned to have children one day. Was I to say NO and dare not to dream…..of something I may want one day. Well I knew she didnt hire me because of it…. & shed figure I wouldnt be around.

Yet here I am many years later still reading for people. What a shame, I didnt get an opportunity because I was a female who may want what she already had..a child.  I find that funny and insulting because what she didnt ask was how long have I been working? My answer would of been since I was 14.  Or how many jobs have I done at once? My answer would of been 3 jobs. Or what were the most amount of hours Ive worked in a week? MY answer 65. Or what actual accomplishments I had completed. I think all of these questions tell a much bigger story, than wanting to have a child one day.

Every mother knows you must do more with your time than just raise your child, if you are at all creative, intellectual, educated, social or diverse. Which is just about everyone. Most mothers want to do something with their lives more than just raise their children. Yes raising children take time/effort but giving to yourself is also important for your child to see the full you. We are complex spiritual beings and most of us old souls wont be satisfied with just playing in 1 lane…..if you know what I mean.

As long as I can remember people have attempted to put me in a box, like “what race are you?”  ; Thank God for Amal Clooney,  as people have embraced my look, ideas and culture and started to see beyond their personal prejudices. Im not a lazy person, if I commit something, I will probably do it better than anyone around me because I know I can. And doing the same thing is boring to me, so I will perfect the system, then find something new to invent. Thus why I have many  ideas and many brands. 🙂

Anyhow do as your heart desire, as long as your not hurting someone else. If you get 30 no’s eventually you will get a yes. I remember finding those million dollar yeses when I worked in Engineering, it just proved my system worked. I’d tell the men; this is what you have to do (xyz), they didnt believe until I proved it.
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Spirit Always Encourages Us..

 

Even through the difficult times.

Its easy for people to judge us, but its harder for them to actually have to live in our shoes. I know through out life, I was thrown curb balls. Things, I just could of never anticipated. Yet spirit helped me through those times. I know when I 1st became a mother everyone seemed happy for me and had advice for me, even those without children, yet none of them held my hand in the dawn hours when my child would not sleep, eat  or when he cried; only spirit did. Those who’ve been through this certainly know what I mean.

So try to keep things positive, by focusing on the positives of your life and tap your inner light. Just know there is always a solution to our situations.

Usually when I give readings for others; spirit is very encouraging, helpful and pushing us to be our best self. Or offering words of wisdom and peace to those in need. As well as knowing what to do in tough situations. I find it an honor when someone actually acknowledges spirit in motion and thanks me for saying what they couldn’t —to a good friend, family member or loved one.

Spirit is gentle, yet honest. Loving & hopeful. Things that may get clouded when we are emotional, stuck in feeling or facing our fears.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

 

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Growth via challenges

Our entire journey of existence includes growth, we are constantly growing and evolving to be a better version of ourselves, so to speak. Spirit is always with us and helping us in this transition. I know Im a different person than who I was 13 yrs ago when I left  my 1st husband. I was always confident with spirit, but when that happened to me, it was mind blowing, life changing, as it happened so fast. 

Most recently I received a message and I connected it to the person in my life. Well it indirectly effected me. Anyhow spirit was great about keeping me calm, as well as helping me raise the money that I needed to come up with. It was interesting too, because I was working because it gave me purpose and it made me feel good. Then at the end of the month I realized my “fun money” had to go to paying for one of my responsibilities, which was fine, I much rather have it, than worry. 

Today as I reflect all those times where I worked for smaller companies that I needed to rebuild and I did it with spirit. Thats how amazing spirit is to me. The last 10 yrs, I worked for smaller companies.  I couldnt tell them how many lifetimes I lived or that my guides were helping me, I would just sound crazy to the average person who doesnt see the spirit world.

Yet they never failed me time after time, they found me the amazing business projects that just blew their mind away. From the 20 million dollar education deal to meeting the Samsung head who’s over  was over 800 million dollars in projects, there was no denying I was being helped. I remember one owner said he wished he had 3 of me. I traveled all over the southwest to meet our clients. I grew his business funnel 300% in just a few yrs and I had fun doing it too.

So as I reflect on my plans for the future, I know spirit is going to lead me to what the Universe needs.

So in those times of doubt ask spirit to guide you and keep taking action because it can really happen.

D. Nefertiti

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