Spirit Always Encourages Us..

 

Even through the difficult times.

Its easy for people to judge us, but its harder for them to actually have to live in our shoes. I know through out life, I was thrown curb balls. Things, I just could of never anticipated. Yet spirit helped me through those times. I know when I 1st became a mother everyone seemed happy for me and had advice for me, even those without children, yet none of them held my hand in the dawn hours when my child would not sleep, eat  or when he cried; only spirit did. Those who’ve been through this certainly know what I mean.

So try to keep things positive, by focusing on the positives of your life and tap your inner light. Just know there is always a solution to our situations.

Usually when I give readings for others; spirit is very encouraging, helpful and pushing us to be our best self. Or offering words of wisdom and peace to those in need. As well as knowing what to do in tough situations. I find it an honor when someone actually acknowledges spirit in motion and thanks me for saying what they couldn’t —to a good friend, family member or loved one.

Spirit is gentle, yet honest. Loving & hopeful. Things that may get clouded when we are emotional, stuck in feeling or facing our fears.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

 

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Growth via challenges

Our entire journey of existence includes growth, we are constantly growing and evolving to be a better version of ourselves, so to speak. Spirit is always with us and helping us in this transition. I know Im a different person than who I was 13 yrs ago when I left  my 1st husband. I was always confident with spirit, but when that happened to me, it was mind blowing, life changing, as it happened so fast. 

Most recently I received a message and I connected it to the person in my life. Well it indirectly effected me. Anyhow spirit was great about keeping me calm, as well as helping me raise the money that I needed to come up with. It was interesting too, because I was working because it gave me purpose and it made me feel good. Then at the end of the month I realized my “fun money” had to go to paying for one of my responsibilities, which was fine, I much rather have it, than worry. 

Today as I reflect all those times where I worked for smaller companies that I needed to rebuild and I did it with spirit. Thats how amazing spirit is to me. The last 10 yrs, I worked for smaller companies.  I couldnt tell them how many lifetimes I lived or that my guides were helping me, I would just sound crazy to the average person who doesnt see the spirit world.

Yet they never failed me time after time, they found me the amazing business projects that just blew their mind away. From the 20 million dollar education deal to meeting the Samsung head who’s over  was over 800 million dollars in projects, there was no denying I was being helped. I remember one owner said he wished he had 3 of me. I traveled all over the southwest to meet our clients. I grew his business funnel 300% in just a few yrs and I had fun doing it too.

So as I reflect on my plans for the future, I know spirit is going to lead me to what the Universe needs.

So in those times of doubt ask spirit to guide you and keep taking action because it can really happen.

D. Nefertiti

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Being Happy for others & yourself..

Finding Happiness Within…

We all face challenges, some small; others bigger.  And in times when it feels like you cant do something you have to detach to know that you can. Like they say, try and try again. I have failed many times in life..aka missed the goal of what I wanted to achieve.

We all have goals, and believing we will reach them is the first step towards success. 

I also believe it is crucially important to acknowledge other peoples efforts,  achievements and life’s moments. In these moments you can see all that the physical world offers and how it intertwines with the spiritual world, in human form.

Most of us do not reach our goal with the 1st attempt, yet it sure is amazing when this happens. As it can happen for most of us when we fine tune ourselves; as well as we fine tune what needs to be done, to achieve our life goals. And we all must remember this when someone achieves something in their life. Whether it be career, a personal life goal,  having a family, getting married, learning something new, doing a trade, making money, doing a craft or whatever goal is important to the person.

Through our personal missteps and through our achievements we grow and learn so much in life. And in those times one can see and feel the essence of spirit. Spirit is always proud of us.

It is very rewarding to be a part of someones success, even if its not yours. You can feel the essence of achievement, even more so if you were actively in their life. Those moments that bring out tears or move you.

Sometimes its good to know peoples back/life stories so you know; we all climbed a mountain to get where we are, as it wasn’t handed to us.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

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Rethinking a Mistake..

 

One Step Closer…

  • You know, its funny, sometimes you make a choice in life and you have to revisit that choice. Such as when I married my 1st husband, just a few yrs later we moved to a different state, bought a new house and just months after I found out he was cheating on me. I immediately packed up my clothes, papers, packed my car, and a small trailer & moved out. It was heartbreaking at the time but the future consequence would of been so much worst according to my guides, so I did it. It was clear in that dark moment that an angel guide told me I would leave then or I would leave later with children, something that didnt even cross my mind; so I left immediately.
  • I remember, many looked at me in sadness and for because I knew what they were feeling, it hurt to be around them. My mother looked at me like I had made a big mistake. It was; but it wasn’t my mistake. I made a Necessary Life-Correction. We all have them. And it was one of the best decisions I had ever made, I think that every time people want to talk about my past to let me know what they think or when they want to make me feel like I’ve made a mistake. Sad really, because who’s perfect and who should judge your life…anyway.
  • I loved someone who was quite immature, who was in fact incapable of loving me back; I loved someone who was still growing up. I had to accept my ex-husband’s short comings and that he didn’t want to change.
  • Fast forwARD 13 years, Im married, I have a few shelter cats, have another nice place to call home and a child of my own. This is as good as it gets. Not everyday is perfect. Yet when Im in good health, I can see the world as the beautiful place that it is. We are all just visiting.

Your true friends and family understand. The ones who judge you are really talking about themselves upon refelction of you because your life shouldnt bother them because its your reality anyways, not theirs.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

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Why I created my Website/Blog.

I went to this meditation class  10 yr+ago, I met some really advanced people more than myself, at the time. Ive naturally been intuitive all my life, I just didnt question why or how I could do this.

Well it seemed like some of the people that showed up, I knew from past lives, they said they’d remember me from Egypt etc. After that I kept meeting many people who I intuitively knew from other lives. So I then went for training in Hypnotherapy, Regression. I actually just did it for fun, then I would do sessions with whoever spirit led to me. I then found out I knew all these people from other lives. It was quite interesting. Every session was profound and mind blowing. It was like remembering you had relatives and friends all over the world without knowing it. Trully amazing.

One was my mother before, one was my father, my one was my guard, some were my lovers from other lives, one was my son, old best friends from other lives, and the most important was the other old soul. The day I met her I knew who she was. She was a part of the puzzle. It was all just super interesting. I just thought how beautiful to remember “who all the people” around you are.

I thought it would be fun to create a theme regarding “past Lives” because until your soul is awakened you dont realize many things and that youve lived before. I had some resistance from other people yet it was all “their issues” being thrown at me, that part I  really didnt expect.

Anyhow I hope you will enjoy the stories I share with you, life doesnt have to be so serious. You can be you, you can be happy, people may judge but remember its their problem and their opinions are just that- opinions, they dont matter. Most negative thoughts are just nonsense anyway. People are just projecting their childhood or past life issue onto you, not to take responsibility.

D. Nefertiti

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When Choosing a New Career…

When Exploring a new career…

Since I counsel a lot of college students & people changing careers, I wanted to touch upon this subject.
As a former University Recruiter the best advice I can offer you when choosing a new career is to tell you to visit the profession you are exploring by someone who has been in that career for 5 years or more.See there day to day activity.

Know that your education for the career you choose, doesnt reflect how much you will make.
It can be less or it can be more depending on the “demand” /need in that field. Check the Business stats of what the industry pays.
Also know when a University, trade school or other companies sell you their Education courses, their business is to sell you “a course of study”. They will predict best case scenarios, to get you to sign on. Any business telling you, you will make 6 figures, right away, is doing it to simply sell you. ROME was not built in a day.

They will not find you a job and cannot tell you how much you will make realistically. At best they will sell you on the BEST case scenario for their field. IN sales I made in the mid 30’s in the mid 1990’s. When I finished my Business degree they quoted I would make 70k+. Yet when I started out I was making closer to 38k with a college degree and 5 yrs of sales experience. After being in the industry for 6yrs & a degree, it doubled. Then after 10 yrs, it kept growing. But just to show you how long a profession can take. I also worked 50 hrs a week, traveled heavily, just to get to over 85k. I would of started at 30k with no experience & a degree. Lucky for me, I was already in the field.

Obviously every profession has different pay scales but know you are going to start out on the low end if you have no experience. My suggestion is work for someone else while you learn, get all the Education you need to do the profession and practice until you know what your doing. Its best to work for others prior to going off on your own, unless you can financially afford it. Even after 15 yrs of experience, going off on my own, it took a lot of time, money and work to get the revenue I made with Employers because they had the budget to market and sell on a bigger scale. I know can do that for myself but it does take daily effort.

Good luck on your career journey.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

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You are Responsible for your own Happiness!

Sometimes people forget they are indeed Responsible for their own happiness. Many people will deflect their problems or issues onto others so they dont have to look in the mirror.

Anytime you have a problem with anyone or any situation, keep asking your self 1 question: “HOw is it a problem? “, Then answer. Keep asking yourself the same question over and over again to solve your problem. In life their is a solution to every problem.

In psychology their is something called projection. When a person deflects their problem onto others. Usually when someone isnt ready to address something about themselves they blame someone else. Which in theory has nothing to do with you or their problem.

Heck we all have had people talk about us, I have. In which we’ve done nothing wrong yet somehow weve become the bad guy. Simple pyschology tells us the person “attempting” to judge you or blame you for something is the one with the problem. ITs called projection.

One time I was volunteering with many retired seniors to counsel other small business owners as a community service.  I was working with an older male at the main desk,  he then told the director I was late 2 times for me to be disciplined. His goal was to have me removed. He somehow saw me as privileged. Spirit had me work on another computer that day for me to see that the man was talking about me behind my back, for no real good reason.

What the lady in charge didnt know was I drove an hour there, in heavy traffic both days, there was an accident on the freeway and I had reworked my entire consulting schedule, just to be there. I sat there and watch this man make fun of the disabled people who came in on a 2 hr bus to meet with advisors,  with their ideas and big dreams. He called their ideas stupid, then 3 yrs later someone else had the same idea and implemented it. Apparently the ideas they had were good, just like what I told him. He was the one not fit to counsel anyone. Yet I was younger, so he felt threaten. He decided to compromise me instead of facing his fear of aging, or how he really felt about the disabled in his mind. Truly his issues had nothing to do with me. In the end I left because I didnt need to work aside someone who felt so bitter they couldnt work well with others without blaming them.

In reality, he didnt effect or change my life in any way. Perhaps running into me made himself reflect upon his life somehow or look in the mirror but I didnt cause his problems. This may happen to you in some form through out your life, just know you are not responsible for someone elses happiness as they are not responsible for yours.

We all have problems. And they all have solutions. Be happy today, you will find a solution to your problem tomorrow.

You are already Perfect, in the eyes of God.

xoxo

Much love,

D. Nefertiti

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As Spirit Guides

At times, Spirit will lead me to “additional information” for others & at first I may not know why I came across the information, yet the person does pop into my mind, until I later put it together. Then I pass it along, and later it makes more sense when the receiver explains why they needed that extra info.
I was at the gym, I felt moved to speak w/this lady. On this particular DAY it was mostly men in the gym, so it was uncanny that I saw her the week before and then noticed her again. Then she sat next to me while doing the bike. Apparently I have the same name as her mother & it was her mother trying to connect with her who she said she missed. Life is about timing. She was preparing for a minor surgery & wanted the (extra) support, she just hadn’t consciously acknowledged it. Yet did say she was missing her mother once she opened up to me. I kept feeling pressed to talk to her, so I know there was a message to deliver & I did. She wasn’t quite open to all of the message, as she was stuck in her own mindset. Yet I know one day she will fully understand.
I know spirit is always with us, &  attempting to connect. We can scream and cry, and in those moments of vulnerability when we are open, thats when the message(S) arrives.
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XOXO D. Nefertiti

 

 

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Focus on whats good in your life.

Ive been through so much crazy, sad, unpredictable, situations in my life & perhaps I should be sad, But Im not. I focus on whats good in my life, right now. Sure many things have not gone right for me, but many have.  As I try to grow and teach and do more Spiritually.
This is what it takes to remain in the HAPPY state we all desire. Things may always go slightly array but we don’t have to let it destroy our inner joy and happiness. The media and people might tell you why you should be sad. But rejoice you are alive and you can embrace this moment, this life.
Some people/Media focus on what their President isn’t, why not focus on whats positive about him. He’s an American trying to stand up for rights of his people & his country, a tough job really. Attempting to create jobs for those who need money and work. He’s trying to change Healthcare so people like me don’t have to pay $700 a month just to have healthcare or so my client, a small company, can afford to provide that benefit for me. Prior to Obamacare my health insurance was $350, it doubled.
Life isn’t always going to be perfect yet we don’t have to make or feel everything is gloomy. “Keep your inner peace”.

XOXO D. Nefertiti

 

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Setting New Goals

I think its normal to reach a goal then want a new one or something slightly different, I think thats how we learn.
I feel most people do not realize they do this but we all do. Ever reach a goal and then think whats next.. Just try not to be too dissatisfied if you get what you want but its not all you dreamed. Part of creating is not knowing all the details, yet we must make the journey to attempt all of our big goals and any achievements along the way.

 

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