When life gives you Lemons… make Lemonade.

This week I had a very frustrating week of lazy handyman and no shows; not to mention other things.

After being ill all week I really only had a few hours of free time to myself. My mother had asked me to take her on an errand a week ago; so of course i thought I could pencil her in. So I gave my free time to my mother. She can’t drive because she hasn’t taken care of her bad knee, so every week I drive her around once a week to get her out of the house. Well she wanted to go get her hair done. I only had 2 1/2 hours. She knows I only have this short time frame while my son is in school; yet she seems to ignore what I tell her. Otherwise I have to prebook a sitter like most mothers do, for work or to take care of business. Well she didn’t make an appointment, so she had me take her to all 3 hair salons, they couldn’t seat her right away because they were booked. I asked her why she didn’t book an appointment when she knew I only had that time window. She said nothing. I then informed her that I didn’t want her to feel trapped and that’s why I bought her a car when I was very young. So this time I wrote down the name of a service that takes seniors around for $5. I wasn’t trying to be cruel.  Yet she sure looked upset. Sometimes she seems to forget the juggle of having a small child, booking sitters and managing projects is quite large. She would never do this to my sister so I had to let her know so she would quite repeating her pattern of behavior. Funny how most people lack such basic communication skills and they get upset when you tell them your side of things. Psychology is quite interesting.

While she walked in and out of salons I was on the phone talking to vendors trying to fix issues. Often she wonders why in the world I am on the phone, when we’re shopping or eating yet if I don’t take care of these items, no one else does it for me.
Its been a crazy week with my son being ill, then catching the cold.
I do have a blessed life yet that doesn’t mean everything is done for me.
Stay Happy,  optimistic and move forward one step at a time.

Love all you soul sisters and brothers who have been brought in my path. #ARI

Donna B.A.

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Saying “NO” to others..

Many women have learned to please men or others, please their parents or to live a perfect life —that doesn’t really exist. Somewhat has been portrayed on commercials or what not. Some will use religion or idealist views and place them on everyone around them to hold this value of control , of themselves and to those around them.
I once went to a very good psychic some 15 years ago, she would tell me when you say NO to ohers, you are saying YEs to yourself. Like many I was taught to say yes to everything. Then life taught me, you just cant. This is a lesson for the empaths out there and all the over givers of the world.
Most recently I was at this Science of Mind Church and the topic was just this. Even when you say NO its a YES…meaning you are saying no to one person but Yes to something else. Sometimes I am saying NO to opportunities because I am saying YES to my son, yes to my husband, yes to my life.
Thus placing this in my mind gave me complete control and freedom in my life. Reminding me that I could say NO to those who impose their will upon me, some negative, some time based, some money based or otherwise. Respect and expectation is a 2 way street. We cant always do what others want, it may not work for our children or our life.
This goes for family, friends business, and whoever crosses your path. It has to work for you and them.
Sincerely, Donna B.A.
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Discussing OUR PAIN & Processing it.

DISCUSSING OUR….. PAIN & Processing it.

People have criticize me for talking about my pain with life, love, relationships & my past. Yet I feel it’s necessary to discuss; so I personally like to analyze to release it to move on. ITs all a process. I use to bottle things up but that didn’t work too well for me, I kept it in my body, now I just discuss, process & release. Im an empath so naturally I empathize and feel & know the pain of others. Sometimes they can identify it, sometimes that cant. They haven’t processed their emotions entirely in some form mentally, emotionally, or accepting whatever situation or person.
For example when I had my son, I was encountering many single women friends/family members who didn’t have children or who had them over 25 years ago in which they judged me harshly for giving up my 6 figure position & gave me much grief about having a son, taking time off, making different choices, choosing less stressful career options that offered me flexibility and choosing what was right for me.
Life isn’t always apple pie, lets be honest but we cant own other peoples pain, they must process what the issue really is for them. I realized, that I represented a mirror to them. A mirror of what they once had, should of had, wanted to have, or it triggered something about them. It wasn’t about me or what I should do, it was about them.
We can co collaborate with others in many ways, work, projects, goals, events, yet our personal life; is that—our choice. Such as Who we date, who me marry, who we spend time with, what we do in our spare time, & who we learn from.

D. Nefertiti

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Persuing our Passion despite others..

I think this is a valuable topic every 20,30,40 something should always keep in mind. As we age we are going to get the opinions of others and why they think we shouldnt do something. Yet they are too afraid to reach for a goal of their own.

I remember in my late 30’s I interviewed for several reader positions and was essentially turned away. My male counterparts would interview and would be hired almost immediately. I remember 1 particular time, a lady who was about ready to retire had interviewed me. She asked me if I planned to have children one day. Was I to say NO and dare not to dream…..of something I may want one day. Well I knew she didnt hire me because of it…. & shed figure I wouldnt be around.

Yet here I am many years later still reading for people. What a shame, I didnt get an opportunity because I was a female who may want what she already had..a child.  I find that funny and insulting because what she didnt ask was how long have I been working? My answer would of been since I was 14.  Or how many jobs have I done at once? My answer would of been 3 jobs. Or what were the most amount of hours Ive worked in a week? MY answer 65. Or what actual accomplishments I had completed. I think all of these questions tell a much bigger story, than wanting to have a child one day.

Every mother knows you must do more with your time than just raise your child, if you are at all creative, intellectual, educated, social or diverse. Which is just about everyone. Most mothers want to do something with their lives more than just raise their children. Yes raising children take time/effort but giving to yourself is also important for your child to see the full you. We are complex spiritual beings and most of us old souls wont be satisfied with just playing in 1 lane…..if you know what I mean.

As long as I can remember people have attempted to put me in a box, like “what race are you?”  ; Thank God for Amal Clooney,  as people have embraced my look, ideas and culture and started to see beyond their personal prejudices. Im not a lazy person, if I commit something, I will probably do it better than anyone around me because I know I can. And doing the same thing is boring to me, so I will perfect the system, then find something new to invent. Thus why I have many  ideas and many brands. 🙂

Anyhow do as your heart desire, as long as your not hurting someone else. If you get 30 no’s eventually you will get a yes. I remember finding those million dollar yeses when I worked in Engineering, it just proved my system worked. I’d tell the men; this is what you have to do (xyz), they didnt believe until I proved it.
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Spirit Always Encourages Us..

 

Even through the difficult times.

Its easy for people to judge us, but its harder for them to actually have to live in our shoes. I know through out life, I was thrown curb balls. Things, I just could of never anticipated. Yet spirit helped me through those times. I know when I 1st became a mother everyone seemed happy for me and had advice for me, even those without children, yet none of them held my hand in the dawn hours when my child would not sleep, eat  or when he cried; only spirit did. Those who’ve been through this certainly know what I mean.

So try to keep things positive, by focusing on the positives of your life and tap your inner light. Just know there is always a solution to our situations.

Usually when I give readings for others; spirit is very encouraging, helpful and pushing us to be our best self. Or offering words of wisdom and peace to those in need. As well as knowing what to do in tough situations. I find it an honor when someone actually acknowledges spirit in motion and thanks me for saying what they couldn’t —to a good friend, family member or loved one.

Spirit is gentle, yet honest. Loving & hopeful. Things that may get clouded when we are emotional, stuck in feeling or facing our fears.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

 

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Growth via challenges

Our entire journey of existence includes growth, we are constantly growing and evolving to be a better version of ourselves, so to speak. Spirit is always with us and helping us in this transition. I know Im a different person than who I was 13 yrs ago when I left  my 1st husband. I was always confident with spirit, but when that happened to me, it was mind blowing, life changing, as it happened so fast. 

Most recently I received a message and I connected it to the person in my life. Well it indirectly effected me. Anyhow spirit was great about keeping me calm, as well as helping me raise the money that I needed to come up with. It was interesting too, because I was working because it gave me purpose and it made me feel good. Then at the end of the month I realized my “fun money” had to go to paying for one of my responsibilities, which was fine, I much rather have it, than worry. 

Today as I reflect all those times where I worked for smaller companies that I needed to rebuild and I did it with spirit. Thats how amazing spirit is to me. The last 10 yrs, I worked for smaller companies.  I couldnt tell them how many lifetimes I lived or that my guides were helping me, I would just sound crazy to the average person who doesnt see the spirit world.

Yet they never failed me time after time, they found me the amazing business projects that just blew their mind away. From the 20 million dollar education deal to meeting the Samsung head who’s over  was over 800 million dollars in projects, there was no denying I was being helped. I remember one owner said he wished he had 3 of me. I traveled all over the southwest to meet our clients. I grew his business funnel 300% in just a few yrs and I had fun doing it too.

So as I reflect on my plans for the future, I know spirit is going to lead me to what the Universe needs.

So in those times of doubt ask spirit to guide you and keep taking action because it can really happen.

D. Nefertiti

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Being Happy for others & yourself..

Finding Happiness Within…

We all face challenges, some small; others bigger.  And in times when it feels like you cant do something you have to detach to know that you can. Like they say, try and try again. I have failed many times in life..aka missed the goal of what I wanted to achieve.

We all have goals, and believing we will reach them is the first step towards success. 

I also believe it is crucially important to acknowledge other peoples efforts,  achievements and life’s moments. In these moments you can see all that the physical world offers and how it intertwines with the spiritual world, in human form.

Most of us do not reach our goal with the 1st attempt, yet it sure is amazing when this happens. As it can happen for most of us when we fine tune ourselves; as well as we fine tune what needs to be done, to achieve our life goals. And we all must remember this when someone achieves something in their life. Whether it be career, a personal life goal,  having a family, getting married, learning something new, doing a trade, making money, doing a craft or whatever goal is important to the person.

Through our personal missteps and through our achievements we grow and learn so much in life. And in those times one can see and feel the essence of spirit. Spirit is always proud of us.

It is very rewarding to be a part of someones success, even if its not yours. You can feel the essence of achievement, even more so if you were actively in their life. Those moments that bring out tears or move you.

Sometimes its good to know peoples back/life stories so you know; we all climbed a mountain to get where we are, as it wasn’t handed to us.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

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Rethinking a Mistake..

 

One Step Closer…

  • You know, its funny, sometimes you make a choice in life and you have to revisit that choice. Such as when I married my 1st husband, just a few yrs later we moved to a different state, bought a new house and just months after I found out he was cheating on me. I immediately packed up my clothes, papers, packed my car, and a small trailer & moved out. It was heartbreaking at the time but the future consequence would of been so much worst according to my guides, so I did it. It was clear in that dark moment that an angel guide told me I would leave then or I would leave later with children, something that didnt even cross my mind; so I left immediately.
  • I remember, many looked at me in sadness and for because I knew what they were feeling, it hurt to be around them. My mother looked at me like I had made a big mistake. It was; but it wasn’t my mistake. I made a Necessary Life-Correction. We all have them. And it was one of the best decisions I had ever made, I think that every time people want to talk about my past to let me know what they think or when they want to make me feel like I’ve made a mistake. Sad really, because who’s perfect and who should judge your life…anyway.
  • I loved someone who was quite immature, who was in fact incapable of loving me back; I loved someone who was still growing up. I had to accept my ex-husband’s short comings and that he didn’t want to change.
  • Fast forwARD 13 years, Im married, I have a few shelter cats, have another nice place to call home and a child of my own. This is as good as it gets. Not everyday is perfect. Yet when Im in good health, I can see the world as the beautiful place that it is. We are all just visiting.

Your true friends and family understand. The ones who judge you are really talking about themselves upon refelction of you because your life shouldnt bother them because its your reality anyways, not theirs.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

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Why I created my Website/Blog.

I went to this meditation class  10 yr+ago, I met some really advanced people more than myself, at the time. Ive naturally been intuitive all my life, I just didnt question why or how I could do this.

Well it seemed like some of the people that showed up, I knew from past lives, they said they’d remember me from Egypt etc. After that I kept meeting many people who I intuitively knew from other lives. So I then went for training in Hypnotherapy, Regression. I actually just did it for fun, then I would do sessions with whoever spirit led to me. I then found out I knew all these people from other lives. It was quite interesting. Every session was profound and mind blowing. It was like remembering you had relatives and friends all over the world without knowing it. Trully amazing.

One was my mother before, one was my father, my one was my guard, some were my lovers from other lives, one was my son, old best friends from other lives, and the most important was the other old soul. The day I met her I knew who she was. She was a part of the puzzle. It was all just super interesting. I just thought how beautiful to remember “who all the people” around you are.

I thought it would be fun to create a theme regarding “past Lives” because until your soul is awakened you dont realize many things and that youve lived before. I had some resistance from other people yet it was all “their issues” being thrown at me, that part I  really didnt expect.

Anyhow I hope you will enjoy the stories I share with you, life doesnt have to be so serious. You can be you, you can be happy, people may judge but remember its their problem and their opinions are just that- opinions, they dont matter. Most negative thoughts are just nonsense anyway. People are just projecting their childhood or past life issue onto you, not to take responsibility.

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When Choosing a New Career…

When Exploring a new career…

Since I counsel a lot of college students & people changing careers, I wanted to touch upon this subject.
As a former University Recruiter the best advice I can offer you when choosing a new career is to tell you to visit the profession you are exploring by someone who has been in that career for 5 years or more.See there day to day activity.

Know that your education for the career you choose, doesnt reflect how much you will make.
It can be less or it can be more depending on the “demand” /need in that field. Check the Business stats of what the industry pays.
Also know when a University, trade school or other companies sell you their Education courses, their business is to sell you “a course of study”. They will predict best case scenarios, to get you to sign on. Any business telling you, you will make 6 figures, right away, is doing it to simply sell you. ROME was not built in a day.

They will not find you a job and cannot tell you how much you will make realistically. At best they will sell you on the BEST case scenario for their field. IN sales I made in the mid 30’s in the mid 1990’s. When I finished my Business degree they quoted I would make 70k+. Yet when I started out I was making closer to 38k with a college degree and 5 yrs of sales experience. After being in the industry for 6yrs & a degree, it doubled. Then after 10 yrs, it kept growing. But just to show you how long a profession can take. I also worked 50 hrs a week, traveled heavily, just to get to over 85k. I would of started at 30k with no experience & a degree. Lucky for me, I was already in the field.

Obviously every profession has different pay scales but know you are going to start out on the low end if you have no experience. My suggestion is work for someone else while you learn, get all the Education you need to do the profession and practice until you know what your doing. Its best to work for others prior to going off on your own, unless you can financially afford it. Even after 15 yrs of experience, going off on my own, it took a lot of time, money and work to get the revenue I made with Employers because they had the budget to market and sell on a bigger scale. I know can do that for myself but it does take daily effort.

Good luck on your career journey.

XOXO

D. Nefertiti

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