Life’s Challenges

Every day is so unpredictable, sometimes we just don’t know what the day will bring, you know…? Yesterday I had a few ahh ha moments where God infused truth into my mind about some questions I had asked about, some of the answers I didn’t like, to be honest. Yet that’s how truth is, some will surprise you-for sure. We all have those moments where when someone does the unthinkable to you, and you wonder what in the world possessed them to do it. I had a close female friend betray me a few months back, it was a real shocker as I really trusted her and never realized she was that insecure to boldly lie about certain things, to alienate me from certain friends.

Anyhow I got through it and you can too, if you have ever had this or a like situation happen to you. Just know people are delicate trying to find themselves, yet if they interfere in your life in a major way or life path; cut them off. Funny too because I’m often surprised when I find out that a certain person is even jealous of me, seriously ridiculous.  I go through hard times and situations just like everybody else does, if anything mine tend to me be more extreme because I add the spiritual element and some people may not be ready for the message their angel has for them. Yet this is why God put me here to help those in need. I never know the time or the hour or who it will be, I just do it when told. It may sound like an extreme kind of position, yet that’s how it is. Some days are harder than others for sure, as every situation is different; yet when you change someone’s life forever for the positive-words can not describe that. Or you set them FREE from their fears, their family or their past; it really is priceless!

On another subject, I also have many single girlfriends looking for love-my advice to them is make time to date. Sometimes they wonder how I finally found someone. Well easy I told my friends, family, work and many other obligations that I had–“NO” for a certain time. I didn’t mix them in with my other worlds, until we got to know each other one on one and established something solid. Sometimes you have to say no to the “single life” to get the “couple life”, its pretty simple. After being a part of the single group scene for 5.5 years, after my divorce, I knew I had to do something different to get a different result. So I did that. Men or women will give you what you expect. So if you expect very little, that’s what they will give you. If you value yourself and stick to whats really important to you  (like core values) and seek that, you will find it. Someone not wanting the same core values will disappear and you will find the one that wants what you want and want you. Quit chasing men or women who are already taken. Guess what if they ditch someone for you, its likely they may do it again. There are no shortage of single people on the planet. So go shopping.

I say why pretend while dating, how are you going to get what you want if you aren’t yourself while dating, never discuss what you want and waste your time on the wrong match? I did that for many years. I finally learned my lessons. So learn yours and get what you want. God wants that for you, just believe! Whatever it is, sometimes you just need to reflect what can I learn from this and what would I do differently, if anything…. Sometimes that is the lesson. if you cant let go of the small things then your not ready for marriage. Ive done it before-its all about compromise, its just not about you or what you want. Life is like that in general.

On another note today our homeowners association have been battling with attorneys on some street expansion issue with the city. Anyhow, I asked God to put this issue to a close late last night after reading a few of the attorneys emails to the board,  as they sounded like they were going to argue every detail with the city for another 2 years, that’s how long we’ve been fighting this. I just received the email that it has been settled. See God answers prayers. I’m seriously impressed we’ve been in litigation for 2 years and many thousands of dollars later, way past the 100k mark. For a small association, this is a big deal. I’m a little disappointed with 1 of the attorneys who quoted us 15k for this and here we are. We wont even make any money, the money we will receive will solely just replace what we spent on our 2 attorneys. Hows that for crazy. God listens.. yeah!!


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