Life is like a Mirror..

This article is for people looking to improve themselves, learn more about their mind and seek to increase their ENERGY by letting go of OLD beliefs.

Some times life is a mirror. And what you need to work on will be put right in front of you. For some of you on the higher vibrations you may have noticed this already. So if someone happens to say something to you about their life and it bothers you remember, it only bothers you because you may need to work on it. IF you didn’t then it would not bother you.

I took a psychology class and they call it projection. Once you overcome your problem or fear, it will no longer bother you. I know one day a friend of mine was indirectly telling me what she thought I needed to work on. In fact it didn’t bother me at all because I knew that wasn’t my TRUTH, it was hers. Perhaps she just needed to say it out loud to make herself feel better. Some women should really stop comparing themselves to others. We all are good at different things. Even if you perceive someone to be better at something, so what, why is it a problem for you? AND what it is their strength? Go find yours. Use reframing, as I teach in NLP to adjust your perspective.
Im at a point in life, where if something bothers me, I ask my higher self: “Why does it bother me?, Why cant I let it go?” I know if may difficult at times to do this. Yet it is the only way to learn and grow and go to the higher vibrations we are all seeking. I am at a point in life where if I have made a mistake, I have absolutely no problem, reevaluating the situation, saying I’m sorry, trying to correct things or working on whatever comes up. Most of the time, life is just a bunch of miscommunications.

I see people get angry over emails, even when their not sure what the real intention was. Hey I like the phone or in person meetings, try that, its the most effective as you know already. I use to work for a University, I had very little time in the office as I was out getting business 90% of the time. I would write short concise emails and sometimes people would add a lot of their owns meanings to a 1 sentence response. Imagine that.  So check your internal dialogue, like they say in NLP. Is it the other person, or is it YOU?
Most people can be very competitive. I see these with younger souls or younger people. Honestly when Im totally grounded, I really could care less. I do not need to be the Best at anything, I just want to do MY BEST and try my best and participate. Thats what life is about, isn’t it?

Im doing as much as I can for moment, sometimes it a lot other times its not a whole lot because of blocks. Either through people or my body who just wants a break. Hey its okay. Im not a spring chicken anymore and I don’t need to pretend that I can even keep up with the 20 somethings physical agility.  I do what I can for me, others or whatever task I feel the divine has me work on. ITs not personal or against anyone else.
As an old soul one realizes one can learn from everyone, if your open & willing. Since I know this is one of many lives Im not worried about being the best, I am already one of the oldest souls, once you get to a certain soul age, it really doesn’t matter.

Fame is over rated, just be happy.

Today as I look out into the ocean I see the peace and beauty that is already here. The dolphins taking a swim and jumping through the air in Delight. Now why can’t we humans be more like them?

D. Nefertiti

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