English: Robert Plutchik's Wheel of Emotions

Forgive others for you, not them. For you! When you do not forgive someone, you hold all of the bitterness, resentment, anger and everything else in your body. So release all of that negativity and them, by saying I forgive you. To be clear, this doesnt mean that you have to accept the behavior or have the person in your life.

It was once described to me that when you hate someone so much that a cloud of negativity goes to them and the situation still messes with your life because you have not let it go. Know that God is just. Sometimes we are not to know how or when justice will be served to someone who wrongs you.

I feel privileged when they actually tell me how the other party will learn their lesson.

It is my understanding that God shows the person a lesson, ie Karma or empathy by having the same like situation happen to them one day. So do not worry about revenge, it is a waste of your time and energy.

Perhaps it happened because you too, need to learn something here.

Ask yourself, what could that be? Could it be to have better boundaries, are you getting to know yourself, getting to know them etc..?

(And I’m not talking about crime what so ever, as there may not be a lesson for you to learn there.)

I divorced my ex-husband 7 years ago and I never worry about getting revenge on him for the bad choices he made that greatly effected our relationship because I know God will be just. Now, Looking back; I know God was trying to bring him to his knees, as at the end of our relationship he was plagued with anxiety, Gout, fear and other aliments that came from no where. He was only 34 at the time. Of course I did not wish that upon him what so ever. I am not God, God decides.

Love Moon Mother,


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