In a psychology class I once took long ago I learned something called projection. This is when a person projects their problem out into the world and pin points their issue to be the fault of a specific person. Usually it is people who are supporting the person in a friendship, family, or someone they look up to or a person who shows up in their life by chance. Done unconsciously yet acted out in the physical with their words or behavior.
I know in some form everyone has experienced this on some level. I know I have. Sometimes people will take things out on me from past lives or the current life in passing; which I may have recollection of or not. And sometimes it has to do with this life and where they are at in their current life. I know it has nothing to do with me really. And everything to do with themselves. As I didn’t create the problem, and in reality I am not the source of their problem. Yet it is something they need to work on from the inside. Its sort of the same situation when you deliver a hard message to someone and they get upset with you. Where you incidentally trigger something on their inside. If theres truth to it, work on it. If not, release it. It doesn’t make the sender a bad person, it just means they are struggling with something that you may or may have not considered.
Like everyone else, I have a few people spouting their truths about knowing me with inaccurate perceptions; yet I know myself well enough to say YEP—thats me. Or nope, your dead wrong. Some people don’t know me that well because they haven’t spent the time to get to know me. I think its a sad reality that many people experience this sort of thing; yet not many talk about it. Especially with todays technology we get a little lazy with human interaction.
What I find is; your either really attractive to people you want to learn from or be like. If not; you wouldn’t bother. Its great when we can connect with your higher selves and say you know, X is a good guy, he can be a little rough at times, yet his heart and intentions are good. And when you are in tune. You will know that. You don’t have to go making them the bad guy because they are awesome at something. Certainly we’ve all goofed in some form. And when someone goofs, I try to think when was I like that in this life, even if it was from 15 years ago, then you can understand where they are emotionally and where they are trying to grow. And just have empathy for their current personal struggle.
Sometimes if you entertain a lot of negative chatter, that becomes your story. So try to keep it positive because life isn’t always cheesecake. Be kind because what comes around goes around.
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