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You are Responsible for your own Happiness!

Sometimes people forget they are indeed Responsible for their own happiness. Many people will deflect their problems or issues onto others so they dont have to look in the mirror.

Anytime you have a problem with anyone or any situation, keep asking your self 1 question: “HOw is it a problem? “, Then answer. Keep asking yourself the same question over and over again to solve your problem. In life their is a solution to every problem.

In psychology their is something called projection. When a person deflects their problem onto others. Usually when someone isnt ready to address something about themselves they blame someone else. Which in theory has nothing to do with you or their problem.

Heck we all have had people talk about us, I have. In which we’ve done nothing wrong yet somehow weve become the bad guy. Simple pyschology tells us the person “attempting” to judge you or blame you for something is the one with the problem. ITs called projection.

One time I was volunteering with many retired seniors to counsel other small business owners as a community service.  I was working with an older male at the main desk,  he then told the director I was late 2 times for me to be disciplined. His goal was to have me removed. He somehow saw me as privileged. Spirit had me work on another computer that day for me to see that the man was talking about me behind my back, for no real good reason.

What the lady in charge didnt know was I drove an hour there, in heavy traffic both days, there was an accident on the freeway and I had reworked my entire consulting schedule, just to be there. I sat there and watch this man make fun of the disabled people who came in on a 2 hr bus to meet with advisors,  with their ideas and big dreams. He called their ideas stupid, then 3 yrs later someone else had the same idea and implemented it. Apparently the ideas they had were good, just like what I told him. He was the one not fit to counsel anyone. Yet I was younger, so he felt threaten. He decided to compromise me instead of facing his fear of aging, or how he really felt about the disabled in his mind. Truly his issues had nothing to do with me. In the end I left because I didnt need to work aside someone who felt so bitter they couldnt work well with others without blaming them.

In reality, he didnt effect or change my life in any way. Perhaps running into me made himself reflect upon his life somehow or look in the mirror but I didnt cause his problems. This may happen to you in some form through out your life, just know you are not responsible for someone elses happiness as they are not responsible for yours.

We all have problems. And they all have solutions. Be happy today, you will find a solution to your problem tomorrow.

You are already Perfect, in the eyes of God.


Much love,

D. Nefertiti

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Listening to your Guidance

It is up to you to listen to your guidance… Ever get pulled in one direction or another strongly? Well thats your guidance. So listen to it.
For example my guides told me to go to a certain large scale business function for a client of mine. Its one of those events where you know, everyone shows up. Anyhow, I went and when I walked through the door it didn’t seem like it was a key event because it was rather quiet in the beginning.

A few hours later I had met some of the largest Business players you would never get a chance to meet, the reality of that was just awesome. And I had ran into at least 15 people I knew from the last 14 years.

Some time ago, I even worked for a private University and one of their students was now a successful millionaire. He had the perfect story where he created a start up, he immigrated from another country, he had to learn English as a child, as an adult he earned an education and then later decided to build a small  business from scratch.
I had remembered him from my University days as he had donated some money to the University. Well he happened to walk by me. I saw him and I called out his name and he was nice enough to stop and spend a few minutes with me to direct me to his close partner for my client. I guess I should be surprise, but then again I am not because what our assigned guides can do for us; is AMAZING. It didn’t hit me how important and far this small business owner had come; as he ended up being the key note speaker for the conference. I believe he has over 47 franchises, not bad, right. 🙂   I was really proud of him too because he didn’t let people or minor set backs keep him from his dreams.

At the beginning of the day I told my guides to bring the right people and had forgot all about it. So At lunch I picked an empty table and wondered what or if anything would even happen, then I just let it go, to see what the universe would bring.

A refined older gentleman in a suit  asked if he could sit next to me; as I was at the table alone, I said of course, as I drank my tea. And slowly one by one, the entire table was full. Well he happen to be the Regional manager of a 400 billion dollar company, he said he managed a small section of that with a 25 billion dollar budget. Yes you read right 400 billion and 25 billion, I even wrote it down because I was in total disbelief when he said it. I think the blank look on my face said what did you say? He even repeated the number. I felt like he heard me. That was super funny. I wont disclose which company, but I have several of their products and have been indirectly pitching some of their items to my friends because they are in the forefront of advance technology. It was pretty fun asking him random questions for 2 hours. Now that was more than crazy luck, don’t you think…..?

Throughout the day I was given many referrals to the key people I needed to connect with, for my client; now all I have to do is do my usual part of research and follow up. It was an awesome day. The ideal for accomplishment. Yet I know I didn’t do it alone. Sometimes, all you have to do is ask, listen, set things in motion and see what happens.

I did thank God, my angels and the Universe immediately when I left. Today was definitely worth all the time I have invested.

Angel D. Nefertiti

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