I have learned so much in the last few years from the people around me. First we always have a choice. Even when it feels like we do not. It is to be free and to choose what feels right and comfortable for us.
When you really get to know the people around you, you may find they are not who you thought they were. Some may even be close friends or family members. And over time they will show you who they really are; sometimes you have to cut bait and run while you can. So you do not feel the consequences of their choices and behavior. We can love and accept someone as they are, yet know they are not right for our path or our lives until they grow or work on themselves.
I say this because in the past I would keep the wrong friends around for too long and allow them to practice on me. Meaning they learned their intended life lesson with me. Yet it was quite uncomfortable because their actions were really unacceptable. Them saying mean things or doing the unthinkable in front of me, to please and satisfy their ego or self.
Being the loving individual I am I like to think the best of people. So now I realize, I can let them practice with someone else who will put up with a substandard friendship that isn’t mutual to my effort and may result in pain in some respect.
I respect the person who is direct, honest and reciprocates on some level. It does not need to be financial or gifts, it could just be listening when Im having a hard day or having a cup of coffee or hanging out. Friendships are never about money. It is about a special connection with another soul that is priceless.
Our angels are always trying to guide us, help us and tell us ; hey I know you feel but you do not belong, it isn’t a good environment. Listen, listen. I found this out recently with several friendships, I had channeled it exactly right. I just didnt want to believe they were capable of those things. In my life, God has graciously spared me and removed immature people from my life time over time in the last 5 years. At first, I didnt like it. I thought is sucked in fact. Now I completely understand why it is necessary. We only have a certain amount of time and we should invest it wisely.
Anything that takes us away from our personal peace, is not acceptable. Do they demonstrate love and do they bring out the best in you. That is what a friendship is for. Stand up for what you believe in and do not be afraid to confront those who act like children. They need to hear the truth from the people around them , it is guidance and they clearly need it more than ever.
I empathize knowing something occurred in their life that makes them feel they must behave in a destructive way to compromise others. Unfortunately they will have to learn with someone does the same thing to them. This is how God or the universe teaches us empathy..
Your Angel Mother,
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