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Boundaries

Ahhh Yes, this is a dreaded topic for most.  Yet we all know that we must have boundaries with others. Whether it be our over protective parents after age 18, overbearing friends, love ones who think they know best or coworkers who love to tell you what to do.

Lets face it, its your life and you are entitled to live it anyway you choose.

NO one knows best other than you. When you meditate you will have all the clarity you need. People can advise you yet at the end of the day it is your choice. Your choice to live out the decisions you make for your life. Not mom and dad, not your sister, not your brother or anyone else.
Most people give you advise base on what they would do. So listen and take the advice with a grain of salt. And make the decision(s) for yourself.
As a business adviser and intuitive angel channel, I deliver guidance from your angels yet Earth is a free will domain.
So like everyone else you still get to choose what you want. Sometimes the intuitive insight helps people find their clarity or remember what they really love. Usually most people keep this stuff hidden deep with in them that they can not find their clarity, especially when they get off track. If someone advises you and you do not like it, ignore it.

One time  long ago a friend was giving me a reading he told me to go to car sales, I just laughed knowing I would never enjoy that. So you see there is BAD advice that will make no sense and there is also future information; both are separate and different. If its in the future if will be stuff you like,  maybe something you do not know of yet  or you have thought about or done them in previous lives or as a child.  If its bad advice it will be super out there and make no logical or intuitive sense. Meaning it will be pretty obvious.
We all have intuition, so if you are guided to someone and you ask for their advice, they are just trying to help you. Yet if its just a noisy friend, neighbor or relative who likes to fix everyone but themselves; Ignore them as they just need a distraction form their own life.

love

D. Nefertiti B.A.

Hypnotherapist, Angel Medium, Energy Healer, Business Advisor

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Love and Acceptance

Once we love ourselves, completely; and accept ourselves. it has a ripple reaction with in the world. the people all around us will also love and accept us. Everything we accept about ourselves will be accepted and everything we do not accept we will see in the world or will be reflected back to us in some form through situations or people. In psychology its called projection. Yet in the higher dimensions of spirituality one will notice this as you listen closely to your angel guides or messages coming through for you as lessons. Its quite intriguing to say the least.

Love – to feel an inner deep affection for another;with out conditions.

Acceptance- to accept others as they are; no conditions.

We all want love, most of us will seek it on the planet in some form. such as friendships, family or partnerships with soul mates. It has been my experience that once we are in complete balance that is when we attract our soul mates.
When we are out of balance we are busy learning lessons, wasting time with people or doing other things that do not move us forward in the dept of love.

So your activity for today is write down what is keeping you from having love? Write down anything that comes to you. then reflect on the list you have written.

is it your thoughts?
your behavior?
your inflexibility to change?

Next Acceptance.
Most people want to be accepted in some form. We all have at least a few friends or family members that we can connect with. Sometimes we out grow people or we need to move on from.  Such as certain friends, family members or groups because our life path calls us in another direction. So Be free and do what is necessary. Just accept people as they are and they will more readily accept you as well. So do not  try to change people that is up to them, those ready or who want to change will go seek out the information needed to do so. Now if someone is trying to change you. Remember nothing happens without your consent. So you may need to speak up if they are encroaching upon your space or time.

Your Angel Mother,

D. Nefertiti

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Good Karma….

I wanted to talk about something VERY positive. Some like to call it Karma, it comes in GOOD waves to. So know that if you have sent out a lot of giving, it will come back to you. If you are in the 5th dimension, ascended, then expect it all the time. I’ve never experienced it like this. Its really nice. Of course I didnt expect any of this, so its great to experience some of the positive energy, time and gifts I have sent out. Thank God, the Universe, your angels or whoever you like, for all that you have received.

Also try really hard to stay positive about everything. I know it can be challenging, yet this is an essential lesson. Try to point out only the positive in others, otherwise indirectly you are saying that about yourself and it will resonate with you. And indirectly bite you in the butt. And most likely you are mentioning because it is what you may not like about yourself, in psychology its called projecting or what you didn’t like about yourself in the past.

So try to re-frame your mind–on the situation to make it positive, meaning look at the situation from another point of view to loosen your control and what has a hold on you.

One day I said this as I was feeling a little frustrated that too many people get lost in the material world, some were some friends I was trying to reconnect with yet didnt have the time because they needed to go shopping or do the worldly chores instead. And I wanted a close spiritual friend. Then I resolved it in myself by saying. I acknowledge that 12+ years ago I was probably like that, in which I needed to find myself and work through everything that I thought was important. I realized, I only bought all the stuff because it made me feel good, then the feeling went away.

So one day doing all that junk led me to spirituality because I was looking for something more in life. It fills me like nothing else does. It gave me empathy to understand where she is now and how far she has come the past year. And she has come a long way from when we first met. I also realized that many people out there who want a close spiritual friend like me, I just havent met one who is in the same spiritual developmental place yet. Yet it will happen, I know it will.

Im an empath so we are forced to experience others emotions by default when they are around us. Yet you can block it or limit your time with them if its too much for you.

Every morning I can either feel, sense or see my Angels. It is so nice since I didnt know who was in my room just a few years back. They never leave, aren’t we lucky… I say YES!

God and your angels LOVE YOU!

Moonmother,

Nefertiti.

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Life’s Challenges

Every day is so unpredictable, sometimes we just don’t know what the day will bring, you know…? Yesterday I had a few ahh ha moments where God infused truth into my mind about some questions I had asked about, some of the answers I didn’t like, to be honest. Yet that’s how truth is, some will surprise you-for sure. We all have those moments where when someone does the unthinkable to you, and you wonder what in the world possessed them to do it. I had a close female friend betray me a few months back, it was a real shocker as I really trusted her and never realized she was that insecure to boldly lie about certain things, to alienate me from certain friends.

Anyhow I got through it and you can too, if you have ever had this or a like situation happen to you. Just know people are delicate trying to find themselves, yet if they interfere in your life in a major way or life path; cut them off. Funny too because I’m often surprised when I find out that a certain person is even jealous of me, seriously ridiculous.  I go through hard times and situations just like everybody else does, if anything mine tend to me be more extreme because I add the spiritual element and some people may not be ready for the message their angel has for them. Yet this is why God put me here to help those in need. I never know the time or the hour or who it will be, I just do it when told. It may sound like an extreme kind of position, yet that’s how it is. Some days are harder than others for sure, as every situation is different; yet when you change someone’s life forever for the positive-words can not describe that. Or you set them FREE from their fears, their family or their past; it really is priceless!

On another subject, I also have many single girlfriends looking for love-my advice to them is make time to date. Sometimes they wonder how I finally found someone. Well easy I told my friends, family, work and many other obligations that I had–“NO” for a certain time. I didn’t mix them in with my other worlds, until we got to know each other one on one and established something solid. Sometimes you have to say no to the “single life” to get the “couple life”, its pretty simple. After being a part of the single group scene for 5.5 years, after my divorce, I knew I had to do something different to get a different result. So I did that. Men or women will give you what you expect. So if you expect very little, that’s what they will give you. If you value yourself and stick to whats really important to you  (like core values) and seek that, you will find it. Someone not wanting the same core values will disappear and you will find the one that wants what you want and want you. Quit chasing men or women who are already taken. Guess what if they ditch someone for you, its likely they may do it again. There are no shortage of single people on the planet. So go shopping.

I say why pretend while dating, how are you going to get what you want if you aren’t yourself while dating, never discuss what you want and waste your time on the wrong match? I did that for many years. I finally learned my lessons. So learn yours and get what you want. God wants that for you, just believe! Whatever it is, sometimes you just need to reflect what can I learn from this and what would I do differently, if anything…. Sometimes that is the lesson. if you cant let go of the small things then your not ready for marriage. Ive done it before-its all about compromise, its just not about you or what you want. Life is like that in general.

On another note today our homeowners association have been battling with attorneys on some street expansion issue with the city. Anyhow, I asked God to put this issue to a close late last night after reading a few of the attorneys emails to the board,  as they sounded like they were going to argue every detail with the city for another 2 years, that’s how long we’ve been fighting this. I just received the email that it has been settled. See God answers prayers. I’m seriously impressed we’ve been in litigation for 2 years and many thousands of dollars later, way past the 100k mark. For a small association, this is a big deal. I’m a little disappointed with 1 of the attorneys who quoted us 15k for this and here we are. We wont even make any money, the money we will receive will solely just replace what we spent on our 2 attorneys. Hows that for crazy. God listens.. yeah!!

Moonmother-Nefertiti

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Adventures in life

Tonight I attended a business Christmas event, (Saturday) which I had a great time at. Its kind of funny sometimes because its like having 2 different lives, most people arent spiritually awake so you cant say many things to them because they just arent ready for it. In a business setting, I have learned to wait until they open up to me a little bit, that’s when I feel I can be more open about what I believe and tell them more about who I am and what I know and believe in life. Sometimes their angels are right above me sending me so many messages that I will speak up because I feel its my duty. So I guess it just depends.

Anyhow we were are all sitting in the front room and one of the guests likes to do card tricks, so he decided he was going to card Magic for us. Which was great because Ive never seen that before. As he sat down he started telling a story with the cards, I just laughed because the story was for me, he talked about how in the olden days sires use to perform for the kings and queens. It was his secret way of saying:, hello Im awake and I do know you. I just smiled because I didn’t expect anyone to recognize me at a random business party. It gave me pleasure to know there are more brothers and sisters of the light awake and out there and letting me know they are around. Its great, actually. I was sending him telepathic messages, everything I sent him he responded to, so thats when I realize oh yeah hes awake….

It turns out he is part of our Family of Light; today I got he is a pleiadian early this morning when I was writing and drinking my coconut water. Anyhow he let me shuffle the cards, play along a bit, and place my name on the card. He said, “whew” when it did this one complicated card trick and he thought I might pick the wrong card. I did pick the right card. Then I said, I wanted to pick the card on the right, yet my intuition(ie guides) told me left. It was true too. See how our angels like to have a little fun with us, I also got a few other personal messages from him that just reminded me how great God is and all that he has created and will do for us. Trully amazing.

Today Is Sunday- I did my usual thing and went to a local monastery some 30 miles from me, which is a car ride through the hills and mountains. I like to see which monks come to speak each week, as all their perspectives are interesting, selfless and different which is really fun to listen to. Today’s monk was visiting from Canada, clearly I knew him from a past life.

Unfortunately I woke up later than usual as I was trying to meditate etc and got there later than I had wanted. I got there as soon as I got ready. As I walked into the monastery and to my seat, the monk spoke about the dream I had just had in my trance state, when I woke up.

What was interesting is I had told my friend about my dream before we walked into the monastery and he mentioned it to me right after the monk had said it. In my mind, I was thinking, wow-that is amazing, perhaps I should listen. I took it as he was trying to tell me, yes you were suppose to come here today, even if you were late. Which I really did feel when I woke up this morning and I also had Jesus on my mind. I woke up saying Jesus, I just couldn’t remember if he we were speaking or what as I lost that last part of the memory as I woke up from the trance state. So I hope he will visit soon when I am more awake, its been a few months since Ive seen his physical presence. Yet he connects with my unconscious often.I do not like to misquote messages from others, so Ill leave it at this for now. Anyhow if you are looking for channeled messages or a specific topic, feel free to email me and I will send that to you.

Moon Mother,

Nefertiti,

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Tonight’s Meditation

I don’t know where to start it, was so darn AMAZING!!

Tonight we astral traveled to the 3 pyramids in Egypt, apparently many E.T’s were already there waiting for us. The day before; yesterday. I had channeled someone from space saying “be VERY excited for tomorrow” so I knew something Great was going to happen, but they didn’t tell me anything else. Last night I even heard the space crafts before I went to bed, it was so loud. The And a few nights ago I saw 3 over the ocean. My friends from the other side even encouraged me to start a group for spiritually like minded people, who may want to advance in their spirituality.

My friend was Channeling the Sirian contact. When we first got there, he acknowledged all of us for coming. He was right in front of us. He said my 2 friends by name, which I will not disclose for the purpose of their privacy. Then I could feel everyone around us, all my friends from the other side. There were many of them around us. It felt like home because of them. I got all choked up. The Sirian called out my name: Nefertiti. Somehow it made me feel better for coming to earth again. Tears dropped from my face, I couldn’t help it. I was happy to be there with them. I just wish I could of seen them all, I could only see all their energy around us, thats how they were coming through for me tonight. I wish I could explain what it feels like when the past meets the present, its surreal. Like nothing you would experience on earth. These are moments you wait for and when they finally happen your conscious mind and unconscious meet in part disbelief and total happiness. Utter bliss!!

As we were inside the pyramid. I could see the ancient looking, gray, thick stone, it looked like a long trail headed somewhere. We had to stay together, so I couldn’t wander off. Also I remembered something a friend told me, how he saw me in Egypt. I drew a picture of it. Anyhow I knew I was suppose to channel the light from the sky to the pyramid, so I concentrated and I started channeling the light in because I felt I was suppose to do that. I just knew to do it, my Angel showed me the picture. My friends said they saw it when I did it. My 1st guy friend was getting the audible messages, the other one was seeing video and I was seeing stuff & I could see was all the light everywhere from the light beings/E.T’s and the light from the sky.

We asked many questions, Here are the 2 questions I know most of you are wondering about:

ME: How will Ascension change people on Earth: Sirian: Its about energy and vibration. There will be lots more energy.

ME-Will many people wake up spiritually? Sirian: Only some.

They also said that people will be exchanging alot more energy in general, seeing and experiencing more. I’m so excited. Its hard to get to that mega theta state at will with a lower vibration, so you really have to raise your vibration. Also that this should somehow help calm the entire planet, bring more peace to people and their worrisome minds.

Vibration levels range from 100-1000 . At 100 people are Angry, they say most of the population is at 200-300, so I guess the planet can use this vibration boost and towards 1000 is total peace.

Usually only a few humans are at a 1000-like avatars ,like our Angelic brother Jesus. If you are an incarnate Angelic you may have that type of potential. I feel that you can definitely get up over 600. Just get to work. And The Angels and light beings/ET’s are at such a high vibrations for us to see, hear, feel them; we have to be raise our vibration. This is why I always say meditate or work on your spiritual path. Its the only way to see them. Its so worth it, even if it takes a while. Trust me, I was a sleep a few years ago compared to where I’m at now. Although Ive always had my gifts, I didnt do anything with them. Now I can channel lots more, because I put it on full throttle.

So this means do your part, so you can wake up and experience all this cool stuff.

We also astro traveled to the monastery my cat came from, he so psychic. As we focused our intention to go there, my cat meowed. Amazing! He hadn’t come near the meditation room until my friend said, shall we visit the monastery…

A "house altar" (c. 1350 BC) depicti...

A “house altar” (c. 1350 BC) depicting Akhenaten, Nefertiti and three of their daughters.

LOVE,

your soul sister,

Nefertiti,

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Inner Peace

I think people sometimes under estimate the value of inner peace. I have seen so many people; men and women grow through break ups, family problems, work issues, friend problems, spiritual, death and  just be completely drained from whatever ordeal they went through. Remember that inner peace is your foundation in life and is truly valuable as all your logical decisions come from that inner peace. Like they say about various products, yet this is about your mind-it’s PRICELESS!

I remember when I went through a divorce some 8 years ago, I was just so happy to be over and done with it. I use to say “boring is good”. Perhaps thats hard to fathom that anyone would wish for a boring life, yet when you go through an emotionally challenging time period in your life, its easy to think and want, really. Yes there’s a lot of excitement in life, so choose it wisely, so there are no real headaches the next day, you know, or like I say crap to clean up.

My ex-husband and I weren’t really as good of a match as I had first thought. Once we lived together he turned out to be a really different person. He would complain about just everything. He was a perfect human being on the outside,  yet a complete mess on the inside. So my advice to all of you men and women, do your homework, really get to know the person when your dating, their families, friends and ask those hard to ask questions. I was in my 20’s at the time and I did what most 20 somethings do and say, “I cant ask those questions”. Its not whether you can or whether you should or not– YOU MUST, especially if you want to get serious with this person. It will be the only way you can possibly figure out if this is just dating fun or marriage material. Trust me, theres nothing worst than getting blindsided, like I did. Do Not let it happen to you.

I spent 3  years in the relationship and probably 3-5 years getting over it. So, next time you date someone who doesn’t quite fit you, ask yourself do you have 8 + years to throw away?

No one will be everything to you, yet I do believe both must see eye to eye on core values such as; spirituality/religion, finances, children, family, temperaments, living arrangements, expectations, etc. Or be able to agree on the differences you have.

I will include different dating tests at some later time.

Heres the 1st one:

write your top 10 core values then rate them between 1-10.

add them up and ask yourself is this good enough for you?

Heres my example:

list                              rate 1-10

1.Spiritual                       8

2. respect                        8

3. Job                              9

4. Family values           9

5. wants children         7

41/50  score: B

Then total the score.

You can the idea, depending on how long you want to make this list. I suggest no more than 15.

Nefertiti,

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Looking for your Soul Mate?

Author: Bagande

Author: Bagande

Be patient he or she is on their way..

And if you haven’t met them yet, then you still have lessons to learn.Are you dating the same person over and over? Well then STOP that, you aren’t going to meet MS. or Mr. Right that way. Do you tell your friends you want a genius then go chasing the Rockstar? Take a look at your patterns, sometimes its the only thing keeping you, from meeting them. learn the lessons and let your LOVE come to you.

Are you in a relationship that has more struggles or heartaches than happiness? Is your partner the opposite of you? When its your true love, none of this will exist, you may have tiny bumps in the road, but NOTHING that would crash the car with each other.

Sometimes some people may look at other couples and ponder what if that guy/girl were with me…..

(which is very destructive thinking because it limits you from finding what you really need, want and deserve.)

One shouldn’t think that way because that man/woman would NEVER work for you. He is in LOVE with that woman, not you. She is in LOVE with that man, not you. No one can recreate the magic that existed in another couple by interfering. No one ever fully discloses whats the magic is in their relationship, do they… ? Each individual as there own personal experience and bond with the other person. And no one can really recreate the chemistry and soul connection 2 people have by inserting themselves in the equation.

Usually it goes far beyond chemistry if you are a spiritual being. That good looking guy or gal will never fit your bill because its just too shallow. When you have a meeting of the hearts, minds and souls: it is on such a heavenly level; you will know that the relationship was BLESSED by GOD.

Here are some things people forget to think about when it comes to other couples, as to what makes them work; usually they have known each other lifetimes or it is a GOD arranged marriage, meaning GOD planned it prior to them incarnating this life. Now, can you see, how can anyone even compete with things like this..the answer is no, they NEVER can.

I am happy to say that my true love was sent from God, I knew this before meeting him, The idea did seem strange at first yet after a several months I understood why God picked us for each other. And besides we knew each other before here, it was just remembering this lifetime who we are to each other. This tends to happen for very spiritually enlightened individuals. As the path is a tough one and the only one that can fill the shoes of your TRUE love and partner, is your twin soul or Soul mate.

I know -REality in life sometimes messes up our fantasies, of what we think we want…yet that is what they are; a total and complete FANTASY. So every man and woman should keep that in mind.

Love your divine mother, Nefertiti

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