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Love and Acceptance

Once we love ourselves, completely; and accept ourselves. it has a ripple reaction with in the world. the people all around us will also love and accept us. Everything we accept about ourselves will be accepted and everything we do not accept we will see in the world or will be reflected back to us in some form through situations or people. In psychology its called projection. Yet in the higher dimensions of spirituality one will notice this as you listen closely to your angel guides or messages coming through for you as lessons. Its quite intriguing to say the least.

Love – to feel an inner deep affection for another;with out conditions.

Acceptance- to accept others as they are; no conditions.

We all want love, most of us will seek it on the planet in some form. such as friendships, family or partnerships with soul mates. It has been my experience that once we are in complete balance that is when we attract our soul mates.
When we are out of balance we are busy learning lessons, wasting time with people or doing other things that do not move us forward in the dept of love.

So your activity for today is write down what is keeping you from having love? Write down anything that comes to you. then reflect on the list you have written.

is it your thoughts?
your behavior?
your inflexibility to change?

Next Acceptance.
Most people want to be accepted in some form. We all have at least a few friends or family members that we can connect with. Sometimes we out grow people or we need to move on from.  Such as certain friends, family members or groups because our life path calls us in another direction. So Be free and do what is necessary. Just accept people as they are and they will more readily accept you as well. So do not  try to change people that is up to them, those ready or who want to change will go seek out the information needed to do so. Now if someone is trying to change you. Remember nothing happens without your consent. So you may need to speak up if they are encroaching upon your space or time.

Your Angel Mother,

D. Nefertiti

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The Dating game

I am writing this for women looking to find a mate. I hope my insights on dating will help you find TRUE LOVE, as I know it is not an easy task.

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English: diamond engagement ring in platinum – Maia :

I have many men friends and I do listen to what they tell me it is always valuable when they are being completely honest. And have no interest in you.

1. Be yourself, if they do not like you how you are now, isnt it better to find out now than later? At the end of the day this is not a movie, this is real life. Save the acting for class.

2. Do not chase after men, let them court you. Most men prefer the one they have to chase, so let them. Let them earn the reward of being with you. I know your worth it but he doesn’t know that yet. Its okay to show you are interested. Do not mistake what I mean here.

3. Do not expect too much too soon. Example: a commitment. Let them come to the conclusion that they do not want to share you. Also do not be overly eagerly. Live your life and work them into your life without compromising your needs.

4. Men respect women who respect themselves. Many men will want to date me because I expect more. I believe its psychological, you get what you pay for or in this case willing to work for. If they aren’t willing to give effort now what makes you think they will do it when your married. Of course you will have to do your part but initially let them court you, men can be so primitive.

5. Practice good communication. Those who can accurately communicate their needs and wants nicely wins. Tone is important. No men I know want to date a nag. This can even trigger a memory of someone they dont like in their past, so resist nagging, encourage talking.

6. Positive reinforcement: Always thank them for their efforts and affirm them for whatever they do right. Who wants to give, give, give with no reward? no one, so remember this.

7. Give and Take: as the relationship progresses, remember to give and take. Say he take you to a fancy dinner, its been 3 months, offer to make him dinner. Or if you prefer it be away from either of your homes, buy event tickets somewhere, men appreciate the gesture. I always surprise my Honey with surprise events. Men love interesting women, who love life, people and make life fun. So be willing to try something new if you do not like any of the things he likes or go find another man…lol

8. Be light hearted: Do not take the 1st few dates too serious. Just get to know them, go with the flow. You don’t have to decide to marry each other just yet. Have fun, see if you have things in common.

9. Things to discuss: These are things you should talk about: fundamentals that are important to you. I call these deal breakers. Work them into conversation, do not use ultimatums. Such as if you dont tie your shoe laces this way, Im not going to out with you. Example: Since God is important to me, its fair to say I wouldnt waist my time with someone who doesnt believe in God. Although I respect where they are in their life, I do not need to marry it or fix them. Remember this otherwise you will waste time and have to cut your losses later. Focus on your core values that they must have, say: your top 10, do not make a ridiculous wish list of 50. No one is perfect and you are not dating an imaginary figure from the movies.

10. Never tell a man what to think or what to do: Lets face it, men are smart and they hate being directed. Most of the men I know what to be the leader in a relationship or be in a partnership that is equal. Figure out what kind of man they are. Most men are not going to date someone they feel wants to dominate them. Lead them in conversation where they make their own choice of the outcome. Also allow them to express their view openly without criticism.

11. If you are in your 30’s & want children: consider what amount of time is enough for getting to know a man. Where you will wait for an engagement ring: 6,9,12 months until you get that commitment. If your biological clock is ticking, then it will be your job to make sure your man is on the same page with your biological clock, timing,& long term plans. Men do not worry about this since they can father children until they are 80. Bring it up generally speaking within the first few months to see if you are in alignment with each others wants, values and needs. Yet definitely when you get to the 6 month mark, you will need to decide if they fit the bill, so to speak. As there is no reason to even date a man if you want kids and they don’t. Or they do not see a future with you and you are ready for that level of commitment. You can not change a man, so do not try. It is a big waste of time. It is easier to find a different man, trust me on that one!!! There are 8 billion people on the planet, I am sure there is 1 man out there that wants the same thing you do.

12. Got to date to win. The only way to find a good relationship is to interview with a variety of men to find it. Men do this to us. So keep in mind, they call it single because you are single and free. Free to do as you please until they put a ring on that finger. Yes you need to hear that, because thats how they think. If they are not talking commitment with you its because they don’t want one. Sell them on the benefits of being with you while your dating and let them decide if that is what they are seeking in their life.

To be continued, many exciting dating adventure, stories to share.

Moon Mother, Nefertiti

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When Delivering Intuitive Messages

UNIQUE PICTURE: Earth as seen from the outer S...

UNIQUE PICTURE: Earth as seen from the outer Solar System (Photo credit: Icarus Kuwait)

As you know there are many sensitive souls in the Universe, often we will channel information about other people they are not ready for or even willing to accept, do not want to hear or even consider. I personally did psychic readings for a studio for 9 months or so. And Yes I trained for a year prior to it and I suggest everyone go through vigorous training prior to giving readings. I also have taught a spiritual course development that was intertwined with human development for 3 years and took over 60 units in the course of Education/psychology. So, yes giving yourself an education is imperative, whatever way you decide to do it.

The general rule is Never give predictions on death, tragedy or disease. You may want to be careful with divorce as well. I always ask permission to give them the info and try to keep things positive. Give the good with the what needs to be improved. No one wants to hear that crap is coming their way. Keep it truthful, yet not frightening as we have an obligation to disclose TRUTH but not send them running to the closet. I hate when Im feeling a bit ungrounded between 2 worlds, I ask a friend for an opinion and its so obviously untrue. I always try to be true.

Now for friends this is a tough one, one has to remain honest yet still deliver the message. Most of us know that we are here on Earth under contract and we know we have to deliver the message whether they like it or not. Can someone still be a good friend and not be honest with a close friend, probably not.

Anyhow one time I had a girlfriend where I knew her and her boyfriend for over 5 years. They were in a long term relationship where she kept on doing the same behavior and the relationship wasnt going to go anywhere because she kept making the same mistakes of the past. She needed to stop her old behavior.It came from her adolescent years, where she didnt feel loved in the family or previous bad relationships with men that hadnt worked out. It was sad to see, feel, know and experience as a friend. How can a light being..not want to help a person like this…?

When I was around them I would constantly be downloaded with information I didnt want to know. Well Her guardian angel kept coming to me. So after many attempts I finally delivered the message. A part of me really didnt want to get involved yet I knew I had to, and thats why Im on earth, so I went ahead.

As you may guess she didnt want to hear or accept the information her guardian gave me. So she turned around and blamed me. Sometimes if the person is not ready to look in the mirror, self reflect or has a low self esteem they will do this. So I suggest if they are your friends , you may want to deliver the message in person. Ive learned the hard way that many low self esteem women have a hard time self reflecting. They can not detach and see the lesson that is right in front of them.

Anyhow souls like me are just trying to help them STOP them from repeating the same painful lesson of their past. Many do not even realize they are creating the turmoil in their lives.

Also if the person attacks you in ANY way, end the reading. And suggest they go seek professional counseling by a licensed professional as their issues are far more than they are disclosing and are triggering core issues they do not understand. ie fully comprehend. Institutionally people will do this as they will feel they need to protect themselves, to distract from their issue, its a coping mechanism, they will attack you. Try hard not to react. I will admit this is harder with friends than strangers. 🙂

Some times the best thing to do is LOVE them and just let them go.

We are not here to be a crunch; just to guide. In time they will see you loved them so much you told them the TRUTH.

Nefertiti

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Do we have past lives?

Most people do not remember their past lives. Once you are awaken by God, the more things are revealed to you. First you’ll realize that you have lived more than one life, youll have dreams about them,some times the angels will show you how you looked before, where you lived or what your interests were. Its actually all very interesting.

Lately my friends will inform me of visitors I’ve known coming through to connect with me. Ie they want to say hello. I currently do not have this capability while awake. People have come to me while in a trance or between sleep and awake yet that takes me a very long time to do. Next, you’ll remember souls that you’ve known before, either when you meet them or as you wake up. Its actually very cool. One day I met my sisters daughter and the day I met her I knew she was my daughter before. I got the information that minute. It was such a surreal experience , how can words accurately describe such an experience, they cant! I felt the love for her like a mother, it was strange to me considering I had never felt like that.

As for my girlfriend she is a soul sister. Someone I have known for several lifetimes. We are both spiritually awake. Our lives have been somewhat similar. Which its fun to share with another female where we can talk about Gods spiritual gifts, experiences, and experience the other dimension without judgement.

I’ve also met other people, like men where I knew they were my husbands before, now that was weird at first. I have many past life loves around me and they are all so protective of me. They are great male friends. Daily, God sends me more and more gifted people who are ready to take the next steps to awaken their spiritual capabilities. It’s a fun journey if you are ready to let go of fear judgement of the unknown and experience Gods greatness.

To be continued.
Nefertiti

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Great abc series in reports of going to Heaven and being sent back http://abc.go.com/watch/primetime-nightline-beyond-belief/SH55131205/VD55135121/the-miracle-mysteries

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